Life is beautiful my friend. Although we sometimes feel tired to please everyone. Tired of being what others want us to do. We seemed to be a puppet for the few. Success may be we can, but far dilubuk our innermost hearts we cry.
Learn not to think about something until protracted, more to do 'something' real action, to do more so that our lives are useful for other people, a lot of smiles, lots of music to enjoy beautiful music, and certainly many many grateful, because we live in the world This is because of the grace of him the owner's life:).
Then how can we live this life more happy and relaxed. Yes, the start is in control of our own lives, enjoy the rhythm of the melody of our lives with one of positive encouragement, and do not forget to lean towards the Father in heaven.
The enjoyment of the story, more ... The following summary of how to live life and enjoy it ...here it is ...
1. No human is perfect, then do not ever try to be perfect. As our parents said, perfection belongs only to God the Almighty GOD.So,, please stop for being Mr. / Ms. Perfectionist:). Not everyone can think as fast as we are, not all people can know what we want, not all people can work like us. Every human has a problem in his life. there everything will be tersempurnakan by time and circumstances.
2. Never try to please everyone.Yes, so remember the movie "Yes Man" someone who had always claimed (No), eventually becoming a people who always say (Yes), although at the end of the movie, people are daring to say no to something he thought was untrue, and he felt obliged to he maintained. Forget to forget to remember also the end of this film, but in the end he managed to make a decision and say NO to anything contrary to his conscience.
Moral of this story, we are only human. So, do not ever try to please everyone and may even destroy the expense of our own feelings.
Learning to put things in accordance with the portions.
3. Doing work that makes us happy. simple, first after the accident and recovered, the fat guy always ask. "What will you do next?'' When I decided to return to singing, he just said. Conduct is everything that makes you happy. Because the happy heart is a drug.
4. Set the priority scaleYes, not grandiose if we have to solve whatever problems we, according to his interests.The easiest way is to plan everything. And looking at the level of urgency / importance level. And begin to implement it.
5. Choosing the right friends.Hehehe ... Yes, so remember, the late mother. always said, show me who your friends, then I'll know who you really are. Choosing the right friends is as important as we choose a potential husband / wife. Due to the positive environment of friendship also influence us to act and do better and move forward. Any man would need the support. Our friends are the family we choose. So make sure you choose your friends that deserve to be given time and attention.
6. Lightweight hand.Giving is not always in the form of matter. Fortunately we get the chance to always give to others. Because many people are able but often do not get a chance to give. Giving can be a prayer, support, energy, thoughts and so forth. So do not ever count what we give, for sure, and trust me it will all be returned Father in heaven beyond what we ever thought and hoped.7. Focus and positiveYes, focus on what does that mean exactly? Hehehe ... Focus is almost equal to the professionalism, which runs what is already planned to FINISH. And still berfikiran positive, so we are ready to fortify themselves with attacks from all sorts of directions.
8. Be yourself.Beautiful when we become ourselves is when we let go of existing masks our upfront.Hehehe ... so, boooo cape wear masks. Be honest to yourself. Who actually wants to trick us? What other people ourselves?9. Enjoy life today.Thankful, and enjoy the process we walk with the Lord through all the problems that exist today. Because today is trouble for today:)10. Starting was changed.Nothing is certain in this world, the only thing certain is uncertainty itself. Hehehe ...If we are tired of being someone else, tired of pleasing others, tired of advising others, it means ... There's nothing wrong with us, or with the person to whom we relate. So, we must change for the better:)
Ok, that's all folks, tips for you, to enjoy our life and makes life better
Saturday, December 31, 2011
Living True Life in Positive Self Development
For Sport And LifeGlobalization has changed the world in many aspects. Today the world has become more advanced with new opportunities. Everyone wants to be successful, rich and powerful, but to fulfill one's dreams; people have to realize his inner potential and their power to do something big. Here the role of SELF DEVELOPMENT begins. But the first question, which appeared on everyone's mind, is what really matters? Is it just about making yourself better? Every body is facing up and down in life there is no perfect life some people want more money, some want a better relationship there is no end to human desire and if their wishes are not fulfilled they become depressed, but we must accept this change and need to evolve in life. Sometimes we laugh so we feel we have everything and this is just the best part of our lives but a day comes when we are crying so much that we want to finish our lives, we feel like dying.
People usually have a habit to blame their destiny but they should not forget that their actions will only decide what they give to life is what they will get it back. One must understand the rules of life that comes after the morning every night or deputy or vice versa. We should be mature enough to react in every situation of life and helping people to take every challenge of life. But for that one needs to listen to his soul that what her life will be and what he really wants from life rather than making yourself a victim of life ask your heart, your mind. This will help you to accept life changes and flows with it. It is all about making changes in your personal life to make yourself better. Always think what you have and what you can do. People just keep trying to make themselves smarter by appearances, they have become so busy with their business life and social life that they do not even have to own them they have everything but have no inner peace. One should always remember THINK GOOD LIFE MEANS GOOD and what is most important is your inner beauty, your good thoughts and when you would think the better you will do good deeds. It is always said that the eye is a real mirror, so look into your eyes and discover your true beauty. Do not run for things, that are not there, use but keep you healthy with good thoughts.
There are many ways to talk with you. Always remember your inner self is your best friend, so try to make your friendship stronger reading your favorite book, go for voluntary work, keep in touch with the people with whom you feel happy, take the time to do your hobby go out to dance, drama, cricket, basketball, museums, concerts, singing, painting, etc. Take part in the competition if you win it is really good but if you do not then do not loose heart. Love yourself is really important, encourage yourself and help others. Learn from all experiences, they are your best teacher. Recognizing the value you. Your self-esteem is most important. Learn to enjoy every moment. Never ignore your feelings, they play the most important in your life share your thoughts with your inner self, with friends and family members. So live life king size and always wear your smile without worry. Be strong to accept the challenges of life. To win the race of success do not forget to win the race rest and peace. Creating a trust
People usually have a habit to blame their destiny but they should not forget that their actions will only decide what they give to life is what they will get it back. One must understand the rules of life that comes after the morning every night or deputy or vice versa. We should be mature enough to react in every situation of life and helping people to take every challenge of life. But for that one needs to listen to his soul that what her life will be and what he really wants from life rather than making yourself a victim of life ask your heart, your mind. This will help you to accept life changes and flows with it. It is all about making changes in your personal life to make yourself better. Always think what you have and what you can do. People just keep trying to make themselves smarter by appearances, they have become so busy with their business life and social life that they do not even have to own them they have everything but have no inner peace. One should always remember THINK GOOD LIFE MEANS GOOD and what is most important is your inner beauty, your good thoughts and when you would think the better you will do good deeds. It is always said that the eye is a real mirror, so look into your eyes and discover your true beauty. Do not run for things, that are not there, use but keep you healthy with good thoughts.
There are many ways to talk with you. Always remember your inner self is your best friend, so try to make your friendship stronger reading your favorite book, go for voluntary work, keep in touch with the people with whom you feel happy, take the time to do your hobby go out to dance, drama, cricket, basketball, museums, concerts, singing, painting, etc. Take part in the competition if you win it is really good but if you do not then do not loose heart. Love yourself is really important, encourage yourself and help others. Learn from all experiences, they are your best teacher. Recognizing the value you. Your self-esteem is most important. Learn to enjoy every moment. Never ignore your feelings, they play the most important in your life share your thoughts with your inner self, with friends and family members. So live life king size and always wear your smile without worry. Be strong to accept the challenges of life. To win the race of success do not forget to win the race rest and peace. Creating a trust
Free Your Mind and Expand Into Your True Life Experience
From young age we are taught to adopt a system of values ??of our elders, deliberately define our identities, and then "stick to it" regardless of the circumstances. Indeed we are programmed to believe that choosing identity and stick to it no matter what happens is somehow virtuous and noble.
When contemplating a strange trend and its impact on the society one is torn between laughter and tears.
On the one hand it's so completely ridiculous how could we not laugh? At the same time on a scale of self-denial is indeed sad.
Once you look past aspects of biomechanics, a human being is an expression of consciousness. With very nature, we seem to be designed or evolved to adapt to the intellectual and emotional stimulation.
It makes absolutely no sense to try and force yourself to think and feel a certain way. The fact is, your intellectual mind and your emotional center of both naturally and quickly respond to events and circumstances without you having to process a great deal on a conscious level.
It's not uncommon to experience separation from your inner self, and thus are not sure about how you feel about a particular event. But with practice and patience you can tune back into your natural response.
Moral codes are structured, and especially organized religion, teaching people to model their thinking and feeling mechanisms after an ideal role model. From this base is deeply flawed and unfair, said code / subject instantly insist their religion is based on the life experiences of all pre-conceived patterns for how to think and feel.
But you do not need a book, a list of rules, or code of ethics to tell you how you really feel about something. Thoughts and preferences come from within, and they appear immediately.
Against the thoughts and feelings that come naturally potentially unhealthy. And trying to deny who you really are at that time will rob you of spontaneous joy and expansion that you are right.
Consider this scenario:
An event that happens in your life, and you are aware of and emotional response is to feel certain ways about it. You do not make the effort to form opinions about the event, and you do not try to control your emotional response, you just react on the mind.
Thoughts and emotional responses may or may not be aligned with political parties, religious, or social organization you're involved with. This does not mean you are bad, sinful, crafty, etc. and it does not always show your political affiliation, religion, social and inappropriate.
The way you think / feel something can be influenced by various internal states such as energy levels of physical and emotional circumstances that exist. And your natural response to the stimulus provided may depend on external factors, from which something happens with the current weather conditions.
Even your intellectual and emotional response to an event like that happens may be different from the response you notice when you recall the event from memory. In the same way you can experience a wide range of variation in your natural response to the event is almost identical in some instances.
Because people fear the unknown, they often seek to control every aspect of their reality. They can ignore certain feelings, deny certain thoughts, and essentially pretend to be someone other than who they really are in the name of "stay safe".
It's time for people to stop being afraid of who we really are. Species we intuitively want to move to the next level of human evolution, and for this to happen we need to let go of rigid, inflexible "rules" about how we think and feel about certain events.
Once we know who we are and how we really feel about our life experiences have an honest basis for deciding where to go next
When contemplating a strange trend and its impact on the society one is torn between laughter and tears.
On the one hand it's so completely ridiculous how could we not laugh? At the same time on a scale of self-denial is indeed sad.
Once you look past aspects of biomechanics, a human being is an expression of consciousness. With very nature, we seem to be designed or evolved to adapt to the intellectual and emotional stimulation.
It makes absolutely no sense to try and force yourself to think and feel a certain way. The fact is, your intellectual mind and your emotional center of both naturally and quickly respond to events and circumstances without you having to process a great deal on a conscious level.
It's not uncommon to experience separation from your inner self, and thus are not sure about how you feel about a particular event. But with practice and patience you can tune back into your natural response.
Moral codes are structured, and especially organized religion, teaching people to model their thinking and feeling mechanisms after an ideal role model. From this base is deeply flawed and unfair, said code / subject instantly insist their religion is based on the life experiences of all pre-conceived patterns for how to think and feel.
But you do not need a book, a list of rules, or code of ethics to tell you how you really feel about something. Thoughts and preferences come from within, and they appear immediately.
Against the thoughts and feelings that come naturally potentially unhealthy. And trying to deny who you really are at that time will rob you of spontaneous joy and expansion that you are right.
Consider this scenario:
An event that happens in your life, and you are aware of and emotional response is to feel certain ways about it. You do not make the effort to form opinions about the event, and you do not try to control your emotional response, you just react on the mind.
Thoughts and emotional responses may or may not be aligned with political parties, religious, or social organization you're involved with. This does not mean you are bad, sinful, crafty, etc. and it does not always show your political affiliation, religion, social and inappropriate.
The way you think / feel something can be influenced by various internal states such as energy levels of physical and emotional circumstances that exist. And your natural response to the stimulus provided may depend on external factors, from which something happens with the current weather conditions.
Even your intellectual and emotional response to an event like that happens may be different from the response you notice when you recall the event from memory. In the same way you can experience a wide range of variation in your natural response to the event is almost identical in some instances.
Because people fear the unknown, they often seek to control every aspect of their reality. They can ignore certain feelings, deny certain thoughts, and essentially pretend to be someone other than who they really are in the name of "stay safe".
It's time for people to stop being afraid of who we really are. Species we intuitively want to move to the next level of human evolution, and for this to happen we need to let go of rigid, inflexible "rules" about how we think and feel about certain events.
Once we know who we are and how we really feel about our life experiences have an honest basis for deciding where to go next
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